I've been living the high life since my husband found a way of stealing money from work, but everything is falling apart.
I'm 42 and my husband is 45. Our girls are 16 and 19. We've been living a rich lifestyle with new cars, a whole new wardrobe of clothes for me and exotic holidays. We've done up our house and our children have money put away for their future.
I love the shopping trips and holidays but I'm getting feelings of guilt. I've asked him to stop the scam but it causes rows because he refuses and won't listen to sense. He's possessive anyway and keeps accusing me of having someone else, hates me texting my friends or going out to see them. I feel like a prisoner. In the end I was so unhappy that I got someone else. I've known this guy for years through work but we got together and had sex.
He's 37, in good shape, and I can't stop thinking about him. We meet a few times a month. I still love my husband but I no longer want to be with him as things are. I want everything the way it used to be and for him to stop before he gets caught.
If he won't stop then I want to divorce him and be with the new man in my life. I've even thought about reporting the matter to police and facing the consequences, but I worry what will happen to my kids. What can I do?